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Tai Chi – What Kids Say

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These are some of the remarks I get from children when I run our Pozitive Kidz are happy kidz workshops in primary schools. In these workshops I use specific Tai Chi exercises, props, toys and games to reinforce themes such as self esteem resilience, calmness, etc.

Are you Kung Fu Panda?

Are we doing magic?

What’s in the box?

Heeeeay

What’s that?

Is that a dragon?

Can you do monkey brain again?

Spooky is not scary.

Ooh, Hammy Hothead.

Yin Yang, yeah!

The mozi!

It’s always enjoyable running workshops for preps to grade six students. You never know for sure what they will say or do which is a challenge and fun to experience.

Filed Under: Reflections Tagged With: Children's Self Esteem, Comments on Tai Chi, Pozitive Kidz are Happy Kidz workshops

Clear As Mud

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In the early years of my Tai Chi training my instructor would demonstrate a technique quickly and wait for a reaction from the class.

If we were confused at what we had seen he would say ‘clear as mud?’ and then laugh.

I’ve been thinking of what he’d said and now realise there was depth in that remark besides the humour.

As a beginner, the techniques and most of the classical Tai Chi sayings were as ‘clear as mud’ to me.

I couldn’t see the correct technique or the meaning of a saying because of my inexperience and my tendency to analyse too much.

I now realise it’s about the doing rather than the anlaysing that will clear the mud away.

23 years since I started I still make pleasant discoveries of what appears to be a simple technique or saying by practicing more and analysing less.

It’s something I teach beginners – just do – and you will discover the meaning.

For safety reasons I keep a close eye on beginners so they don’t injure themselves.

As long as they’re within the safety limits of a technique I let them discover the meaning for themselves.

And this can be achieved by constant practice.

Otherwise, it will be ‘clear as mud’.

Filed Under: For Beginners, Reflections Tagged With: Beginner, Clear as mud, Reflection, Tai Chi

If Only …..

By Chris 2 Comments

Put these two words ‘if only’ together and you have an instant recipe for regret and negativity.

Here’s my ‘If only …. list.

If only my knees were in good shape …

If only I was learning from a Wu Style Tai Chi grand master …

If only I had more time …

If only I was younger …

If only I had a regular training partner …

If only I had talent …

If only I had more hair …

If only …. ad nauseam (pass the smelling salts)

It’s easy to fall in the ‘if only’ trap and it is something that should be avoided if you are to stay positive and get the most from your Tai Chi training.

‘If only’ can demotivate you and lock you into the past and keep you there.

So the next time you catch yourself saying ‘if only’, challenge yourself and focus on where you are and what you can and are willing to do.

That way, you will get the most out of your training. And your life.

Hmm, now if only I can stop saying if only ……….

Filed Under: For Beginners, Reflections Tagged With: Attitude, focus, If only, Regret, Training

Women’s Self Defence – Tai Chi Way

By Chris 2 Comments

A few years ago I ran short courses in self defence for women.

The courses were 6-8 weeks in duration, one hour per week.

When I sat down and created these courses I looked at my Tai Chi background to develop simple and practical techniques.

One technique I taught was  from the Tai Chi essentials (body alignment).

That technique was ‘chin’ alignment.87468794

You simply tuck your chin slightly in.

How can that be used as a self defence technique?

Well, it’s a preventative self defence technique that anybody can do.

Here’s my rationale.

Sticking your chin out can be interpreted as a sign of arrogance or you are looking for trouble (it tends to be a guy thing). You are actually inviting a reaction, particularly from an attacker.

Now, if your chin is tucked in too tightly, it will force your head downards into a submissive pose. Something that attackers tend to look for.

The Tai Chi chin alignment is not only correct body posture but it also gives out an assertive look that may cause an attacker to have second thoughts.

Inwardly you may feel nervous or fearful but when you adopt the correct body posture it can help deter attackers.

I made sure the course was fun by using the following exercise to practice the ‘chin’ technique.

I had women work in pairs. They walked past each other three times.  Each time they would either  adopt an aggressive, passive or assertive chin pose.

I got them to exaggerate the aggressive and passive chin poses to tap into the feel of the correct chin technique. And it also helped them to loosen up and have fun learning.

Oh, I did teach basic strikes, kicks, strategies with specific Tai Chi themes in these short courses but the emphasis was always on prevention.

And prevention to me is the ideal form of self defence.

In case you don’t know, Tai Chi is a self defence art and here’s a demonstration byGrand Master Cheng Tin – Hung.

It takes talent, dedication and several years practice to be able to use Tai Chi as a form of self defence.

However, from my experience most women neither have the time nor interest to learn self defence to that extent.

That’s why short self defence courses are ideal for many women.

It provides them with basic skills, strategies and confidence they may otherwise never have.

Filed Under: Reflections, Self defence Tagged With: Self defence, Tai Chi Essentials, Tai Chi technique, Women's self defence

Tai Chi Vs Water Buffalo

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IMG_2053Don’t be fooled by this fellow.

In the photo he was on his best behaviour.

I was in Nepal recently for the World Appreciative Inquiry conference where Sue and I delivered our ‘Power of AQ/KQ workshop.

After the conference, a group of us travelled to the Chitwan provence, which was a 5 hour drive from Kathmandu.

I saw this calm looking buffalo at one of the villages we visited and took his photo.

On the way back I was about to cross a narrow footbridge when I stopped to take another photograph of the water buffalo who was by now in the creek.

As I raised my camera he started to splash about and came charging towards me.

I did what any Tai Chi person would do.

I used one of the 8 powers.

I retreated. And fast.

To add insult to injury I ended up drenched by the spraying water and no photo.

The classics say ‘4 ounces leads a 1000 pounds.’

No it doesn’t.

When 1000 lbs comes charging at you, forget 4 ounces.

And forget about brush knee twist step.

Just run.

In the opposite direction!

Filed Under: Reflections Tagged With: 4 ounces leads a 1000lbs, brush Knee twist step, Tai Chi, Water Buffalo

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Terms

Tai Chi Chuan
A health and self defence system.

Chi
The ‘intrinsic energy’ which circulates in all living things – Dr. Yang Jwing-Ming.

Chi Kung
….. specialises in building up the Chi circulation in the body for health and/or martial purposes – Dr. Yang Jwing-Ming.

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